

7 Ways to Welcome Healthy Habits
After the new year many of us try to incorporate healthier habits into our lives. Different strategies work better for different people....


Starting Early: Helping Kids Learn to Pause
The invaluable skill of pausing can be taught to children. In fact, doing so will give them a strong foundation for moving purposefully...


Exercise: Practice Pausing (and Noticing)
Walk around the block with an intention simply to notice what is happening. What do you see? What smells are you aware of? What are the...


Pausing: An Invaluable Life Skill
"The right word may be effective, but no word was ever as effective as a rightly timed pause." Mark Twain How often do you stop what...


Musings on Mindfulness, Non-Attachment, and Cubs Fans
As a child growing up in the suburbs of Chicago, I loved the Chicago Cubs. A colorful aunt followed them religiously on WGN radio. She...


Listen: Letting Go of Personal Roadblocks
This 20 minute exercise is a tool to help you let go of what holds you back. It uses a visual metaphor of getting stuck, noticing that...


Opening to Desire
When we judge or push away our desires, we miss an opportunity to know ourselves better. In fact, denying our desires can also be a trap....


Exercise: My Desire Traps
In this intentional exercise you'll reflect upon what you desire, and how you relate to them and pursue them. Reflect upon when they...


Distinguish Desire From What Makes You Happy.
What you desire and what makes you happy are often different. Standing in a realtor’s window and having a momentary fantasy about a home...


Listening Practice: Anchoring in Your Breath
A practice that anchors you in your breath is helpful for a couple of reasons. First, no matter what is happening, your breath is always...